Note: this article is written to be directed exclusively at the partners of trans people.
There are many issues that come up surrounding genital surgery for trans people (more commonly known as SRS or Sex Reassignment Surgery). Though these are important issues, another important issue that often gets overlooked is how this impacts relationships. Reactions can [...]

I am truly sorry for my absence of late, and I wish I had some excuse to give you; a means by which I might be forgiven, and all ill will forgotten. Alas, no such excuse exists. Well, not a true one, anyway. The truth is, I have another project going, and inspiration for it [...]

Transition, like puberty, is a time in your life where there are many changes in your body happening, and some of the more inivsible changes that occur in both these events are the changes to sensation and your libido. There are 3 main stages where there can be changes in sensation and libido: when you [...]

Sex toys are wonderful things! They can make a solo session much more fun, and when incorporated into your routine properly, they can also enhance the connection you have with your partner. From vibrators to cock rings, here’s a look at how we can use these toys to enhance our experience.
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The subject of cyber sex and internet relationships is largely avoided in transgender discussion groups, because of the taboo that’s been born of people posing as the opposite gender online. We don’t want to attach ourselves to a negatively viewed practise, or be seen as perverts, so we don’t talk about it. This is only [...]

Navigating sex for a trans person is tricky, but it can be especially tricky for someone who is pre-operative or non-operative. Every trans person feels differently about their birth genitals, and consequently, deal with them in a different way. For many though, the existance of our birth genitals creates cognitive dissonance, which can translate into [...]

One of the major considerations we made in creating this blog was the impact it may have on the general impression of what transgender issues are all about. Of course, the authors, living transgender lives, understand well that transitioning is not about the way we have sex. However, historically the general percerption of transition has [...]