Navigating sex for a trans person is tricky, but it can be especially tricky for someone who is pre-operative or non-operative. Every trans person feels differently about their birth genitals, and consequently, deal with them in a different way. For many though, the existance of our birth genitals creates cognitive dissonance, which can translate into [...]

As both a queer- and trans-rights activist, I have always felt a strong sense of community. However sometimes I feel torn between which community I’m supposed to be loyal to – is it the trans community? The queer community (as a whole, encompassing all the letters of the acronym)? The lesbian community? The kink community? [...]

One of the major considerations we made in creating this blog was the impact it may have on the general impression of what transgender issues are all about. Of course, the authors, living transgender lives, understand well that transitioning is not about the way we have sex. However, historically the general percerption of transition has [...]