One of the trickier parts of working on this site is trying to represent the vast spectrum of trans people that exist. One of the key notions about what it means to be trans is experience. Perhaps better than to say that we are trans people, we should say that we experience gender as trans [...]

Sex toys are wonderful things! They can make a solo session much more fun, and when incorporated into your routine properly, they can also enhance the connection you have with your partner. From vibrators to cock rings, here’s a look at how we can use these toys to enhance our experience.
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The subject of cyber sex and internet relationships is largely avoided in transgender discussion groups, because of the taboo that’s been born of people posing as the opposite gender online. We don’t want to attach ourselves to a negatively viewed practise, or be seen as perverts, so we don’t talk about it. This is only [...]

As both a queer- and trans-rights activist, I have always felt a strong sense of community. However sometimes I feel torn between which community I’m supposed to be loyal to – is it the trans community? The queer community (as a whole, encompassing all the letters of the acronym)? The lesbian community? The kink community? [...]

One of the major considerations we made in creating this blog was the impact it may have on the general impression of what transgender issues are all about. Of course, the authors, living transgender lives, understand well that transitioning is not about the way we have sex. However, historically the general percerption of transition has [...]