So you’re on a date. They’re really cute, you’re getting along well, and you can see yourselves going out on a second (or third, or fourth, or…) date. Maybe you’ve had a hot make-out session or two, and are ready to take everything to the next level. Only one barrier remains – the dreaded conversation. [...]

Note: this article is written to be directed exclusively at the partners of trans people.
There are many issues that come up surrounding genital surgery for trans people (more commonly known as SRS or Sex Reassignment Surgery). Though these are important issues, another important issue that often gets overlooked is how this impacts relationships. Reactions can [...]

I am truly sorry for my absence of late, and I wish I had some excuse to give you; a means by which I might be forgiven, and all ill will forgotten. Alas, no such excuse exists. Well, not a true one, anyway. The truth is, I have another project going, and inspiration for it [...]

One of the trickier parts of working on this site is trying to represent the vast spectrum of trans people that exist. One of the key notions about what it means to be trans is experience. Perhaps better than to say that we are trans people, we should say that we experience gender as trans [...]

Just a heads up, we are experiencing some technical difficulties while we make some minor changes to the site. The most affecting of these is the current inability to post comments on pages. Also, some of the links in our pages are broken, due to us moving things around. A crack team of green gummy [...]

We have done a healthy bit of work on the site today, following our recent change of site layout. Here’s the scoop!
1. We have made a change to our disclaimer’s copyright clause, which used to say that the authors of this site are the owners of the intellectual right to all comments posted here. There [...]

So, we’re changing the layout. It looks like the previous layout made it a bit tricky to navigate, as the Featured Article led a lot of people to believe that that was the whole site. This new layout should shake things up a bit, and hopefully, will help get you to want to come back!
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It’s wonderful when a partner sticks with a person through a transition. Transition can often lead to healthier, more honest relationships. Coming out to a spouse can make the bond between them stronger. Unfortunately, this isn’t often the case. More frequently, partners can be torn apart as they both struggle through the various relationship issues [...]

Transition, like puberty, is a time in your life where there are many changes in your body happening, and some of the more inivsible changes that occur in both these events are the changes to sensation and your libido. There are 3 main stages where there can be changes in sensation and libido: when you [...]

So, we’re seeing lots of people checking out the site, but so far only one person is commenting regularly. This site is meant to encourage discussion, not sit as a standalone blog. To help up further the discussion on the board, could you please let us know…
Question: What are your barriers to posting comments?

The trans community is a diverse set of people, with only one thing in common – we all exhibit some form of gender variance. As with any community, most people bond together over their commonalities, some become friends, and some become, well, more than friends. Yet a common question encountered in the trans community is [...]

Our apologies for the downtime, which started  sometime last night. It was due to a billing issue with our webhost, which has now been resolved. Thanks for your patience. We should have a fresh article or two up by this evening.
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Sex toys are wonderful things! They can make a solo session much more fun, and when incorporated into your routine properly, they can also enhance the connection you have with your partner. From vibrators to cock rings, here’s a look at how we can use these toys to enhance our experience.
Dildos
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The term ‘autogynephilia’ is, to put it mildly, a very controversial term within the transgender community. In fact, it’s a very controversial term in the medical community as well. Let’s start off with a short definition, cited from Wikipedia:
Autogynephilia is the term coined in 1989 by Ray Blanchard to refer to “a man’s paraphilic tendency to [...]

The subject of cyber sex and internet relationships is largely avoided in transgender discussion groups, because of the taboo that’s been born of people posing as the opposite gender online. We don’t want to attach ourselves to a negatively viewed practise, or be seen as perverts, so we don’t talk about it. This is only [...]